We spent New Years at Juergen's dads house in the North of Germany. There was some cold, and a little snow. We had a nice dinner with some very good friends. Their 3 kids are grown up. They have loads of free time. They can travel and sit in book stores and cafes. We would have so much money and time if we hadn't adopted. So what would I wish for in 2009? Another Chinese daughter. Will it happen? God only knows, but you have to have vision. Adopted babies are conceived in the heart!